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I’ve pretty much heard this all my life: “You’re scary.

You intimidate men and that’s probably why you have a hard time with guys.” That literally never made sense to me. Then one day, one of my guy friends gave it to me straight. You don’t need anyone, you are intelligent, and you make men feel inferior without even realizing it.” What?

How could being intelligent and independent be a bad thing?

Especially in a relationship, do guys want to marry ignorant, dependent women? But as I’ve gotten older, I have realized that men instinctively want to be superior in every aspect, and it terrifies them to think that a woman might be stronger, or smarter than them.

Relationships 50 or even 30 years ago were pretty much laid out like this: boy meets girl, boy and girl date for a substantial amount of time, boy asks girl’s parents for her hand, they get married, girl moves in with boy, takes care of the home, possibly works a modest job, submits to her husband; but the boy is the breadwinner, decision-maker, authoritarian, “man of the house.” They live like this happily ever after.